Going Green In The Hereafter…….
Here’s an example of going green in the death care industry in El Mirage Az.
Here’s an example of going green in the death care industry in El Mirage Az.
Funerals are usually the last place you’d expect to learn, let alone have fun and laugh, but that’s exactly what the deceased want to happen at this service.
Romeo Theatre Company students and their director will make a return during the Victorian Festival to make history come alive by holding a Victorian funeral re-enactment.
The performance will be held at noon at the First Congregational Church on Saturday, May 16. Pre-sale tickets are $8 and tickets at the door will be $10. Children’s tickets are $5.
Like last year’s mock wedding, entertainment and education will be used to inform the audience of the superstitions and etiquette of Victorian-era funerals, said Rebecca Couch, coordinator of the performance.
“Everyone from last year kept saying `we need to do a funeral,’ so I looked into it and another event with a lot of ceremony, etiquette and traditions is a funeral,” she said.
The same cast from the wedding re-enactment will revive their roles, including 2008 graduates Justin Kent and Catherine Raffa as the newlyweds, senior Ryan Hake as the minister and director and instructor Kendra Walls as Kent’s mother, Dixie. The service will be for Dixie, who at the couple’s wedding ironically wore black since she believed she was losing her southern son to a northern woman.
“A lot of the humor will come from the families interacting,” Couch said.
While the northern and southern families try to get along for the funeral, the disembodied spirit of Dixie will wander around, commenting on how her own funeral is going.
“Back then, the fear wasn’t of death, but to die and not be properly mourned,” Couch explained. “No costs were spared for funerals then<they even dyed horses black for the processions.”
Some curious traditions audiences members can keep an eye out for are covering mirrors so the deceased spirit doesn’t become trapped in the glass, or stopping clocks at the death hour.
Like modern funerals, a reception with tea and cake will be held following the performance. It won’t be as long as the traditional wake though, which Couch says lasted three to four days.
“The medical field wasn’t as advanced then, so if someone seemed dead they might’ve just been in a coma or unconscious,” she said. “So they held wakes to see if the person would wake up.”
Add more funerals to the list of expenses cities and towns may have to bear in the wake of state budget cuts.
Gov. John Lynch and House lawmakers have proposed eliminating money to pay for the funerals of old people who die broke. The state budgeted $25,000 for the services last year.
If the cut stands, municipalities will have to step in. They’re required to pay funeral expenses — burials or cremation — for those on public assistance. Most towns pay funeral homes between $500 and $750, according to Keith Bates, president of the New Hampshire Local Welfare Administrators Association. Homes have discretion over the bodies and usually choose cremation, which costs far less.
Burials for paying customers cost about $7,300 on average, according to the National Funeral Directors Association. It does not list cremation costs, but New Hampshire directors say those range from $1,000 to $2,800.
Bates said New Hampshire towns have paid indigent funeral expenses for two centuries. He’s the welfare director in Portsmouth, which has paid for 23 since 2001.
“For the most part we’re talking about people who die with no identifiable relatives in subsidized housing,” he said. “We’re talking about a real small sum of money.”
The state traditionally has paid for funerals for seniors enrolled in two public assistance programs, but the budget crunch has legislators and the governor proposing cuts that would have been unthinkable in other years.
“The budget savings that we offered up were in programs that had less egregious an impact on people we serve,” Terry Smith, director of the state Division of Family Assistance, said in an e-mail.
His office has paid for 53 funerals over the last two years.
Janet Poulin, human services director in Dover, said she can handle more cases.
“I usually do between two and four every year,” Poulin said. “It’s not a huge number.”
Local funeral homes also sacrifice.
“If they do it for $750 they definitely take a bit of a loss on that,” Bates said.
They might do better in New Jersey. Peter Morin, executive director of the New Hampshire Funeral Directors Association, said the government paid $2,400 for indigent funerals when he practiced there in the late 1990s.
But Daniel Stockbridge, a funeral director in Epping, doesn’t mind giving the occasional discount.
“We’re here to help in time of need,” he said.
So are the towns, when the time comes for a final resting place. Morin said many towns reserve cemetery space for indigents’ remains.
Cynthia Rogers, director of Emmons Funeral Home in Bristol, said the process is sometimes the only option.
“We’re in a service industry,” she said. “It would be the same as a doctor refusing treatment to a patient who needed it.”